There are a lot of words related to emotions that we use every day – happy, sad, confused, wonder, contented, etc. we never had any doubt about what they mean. When we use these words to communicate, we never doubted whether the other person will understand it or not.
What comes to our mind when we hear these words?
For example, what comes to our mind when we hear the word ‘happiness’?
It must be a smile or laughter. We remember cry or a frown face when we hear the word ‘sad’.
Is this what emotion is all about?
According to Nico H Frijda, there are three components for emotions.
- Subjective experience
- Physiological responses
Laughter, cry, smile, frown, etc. are behaviors that are associated with certain emotions. Apart from these expressions, we can observe bigger and more significant behaviors also as part of emotional behaviors, like throwing something when angry, patting a pet when affectionate, etc.
Apart from these, there are feelings or experiences that are associated with each emotion. It is very difficult for someone to explain this experience even though everyone experiences it. It is more like ‘the self’ or the ‘I’ within us experiences the emotion. This is evident when someone explains their emotional state like “I feel sad”, “I feel happy”, etc. The assumption is that if people emphasize on “I feel…” there must be something special about that feeling.
Another thing that comes into picture is physiological responses. For example, shivering, palpitations, etc. We use some nice phrases to represent the physiological changes. ‘Broken heart’, ‘butterflies in the stomach’, etc., are some phrases we use to explain some of these states.
When we face an event, we generate all the three mentioned above as a response to what we face. This phenomenon is called emotion.